Why I Support Dharma Forward

Editor's note: The Dharma Forward campaign is in its final stretch run for this year -- and needs your support to reach its goal of $15 million. To underscore the importance of Dharma Forward, the BCA Endowment Foundation reached out to Sangha members and asked them why they are choosing to support the campaign. To donate, go to bca.kindful.com 

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Growing up as a BCA minister’s kid in Stockton, Mountain View and San Francisco, I had a loving family and was surrounded by warm, caring individuals who selflessly gave their time and energy to the temple community. 

How lucky was I? However, sadly, I didn’t appreciate this life situation. Somehow, I felt entitled. And unfortunately, this sense of entitlement has carried on throughout my life. Needless to say, this is regrettable and embarrassing to admit.

My parents, the late Rev. LaVerne and Helen Sasaki had a favorite Japanese phrase, “okagesamade.” It means that my life and situation are only possible because of countless people, animals and other living things. As an ordinary foolish person, I’m only aware of a tiny fraction of what I’ve been given.

I started to study Buddhism and Jodo Shinshu more seriously in 2021, when Rev. Dr. Kenji Akahoshi asked me to become a minister’s assistant at the Buddhist Temple of San Diego. Since then, I’ve felt increasingly humbled by our Nembutsu teachers and teachings. At age 59, I’m now an aspirant for Tokudo in Japan in October.

Deep down, do I feel accepted and worthy? Can I confidently face loss and uncertainties that are around the corner? The Buddha-Dharma and Jodo Shinshu path can help us resolve these questions. We can come to realize how rich and precious life is.

Our family decided to give to Dharma Forward to help ensure that more people and future generations are able to encounter the teachings. Okagesamade, we’re fortunate to be able to “give back” to a small degree.